“Glow-up” usually brings to mind makeup, hair, nails, and style, but the best glow-ups actually have nothing to do with your appearance. A true glow-up is hard to pin down. Somebody points out that you’re glowing or extra happy, but you can’t name the reason. This kind of glow-up comes from confidence, peace, and self-growth. Achieving this is all about choices!
Build Confidence Through Action (Not Perfection)
Confidence is all internal. It has nothing to do with how you look or what others say about you. It is all about feeling secure in yourself and who you are. Stop waiting until you feel ready to do things! The girls who glow differently are the ones who go outside of their comfort zone.
Show up for yourself! Keep promises you make to yourself, whether they are big or small. If you develop a pattern of failing to follow through, you’re not just missing opportunities; you’re letting yourself down. Over time, they will build up your confidence because you know you are reliable and stick to your word (and this will translate to how you interact with others).
Expand Your Mind
Confidence comes with knowledge. Using your brain is a gift and a power move. Read books that challenge you and expand your vocabulary and general knowledge. Listen to podcasts that teach you useful things and help you stay mindful. Don’t be afraid to ask questions. Keep conversations going, ask deep questions, and use your voice to share your opinion. Being intellectually curious makes you a magnet that people are drawn to.
Set Goals That Have Nothing to Do With Looks
When you start achieving things, people take notice. Success accumulates, and it changes how you interact with the world around you. Go after personal goals, dance goals, and even leadership goals. Focus on skills that help you improve, such as public speaking, organization, healthy habits, and emotional regulation. Every achievement is another gold star, making you shine brighter.
Protect Your Peace
Protecting your peace is one of the best things that you can do for yourself. Not every group chat needs your attention every second of the day, and you don’t need a comeback for every argument. Sometimes the best thing you can do for yourself and the situation is to stay silent. Sometimes, staying out of it can bring more peace than speaking your mind. Decide if you’re in attack mode or adding a useful perspective. Peaceful energy shows people that you are secure in yourself and don’t need drama.
