Being a dancer means having a jam-packed schedule filled with rehearsals, practices, and competitions. This can leave little to no time for other things such as hanging out with friends, homework, or even sleep (sometimes). But what happens if your best friend isn’t a dancer? Or maybe they aren’t even an athlete. Put them to the test to see if they can balance your schedule. If you’ve ever felt conflicted when it comes to your passion for dance and your friendships, this is for you! Here’s the ultimate friendship test to see if your bestie is truly in sync with your athletic busy lifestyle.
Can They Understand Your Chaotic Schedule?
Understanding all that an athlete has to do in a week, or even just a day, can be tricky. Will they get it if you have to miss girls’ night due to having an impromptu practice before their competition that weekend? It is important for your friends to be understanding of your busy schedule and your love for what you do, even if this means having to miss out on spending some time with them.
Friendship Test: Do they support your schedule, or do they constantly make you feel bad for missing plans?
Are They Willing to Be Flexible?
Your daily schedule has to be as flexible as your dance moves. This can look like fitting in dinner between a practice that just ended at 7pm and the one that starts at 8pm. And even when you do get time to hang out or chill, you might be feeling sweaty and exhausted. A real bestie won’t mind having to fit in a late-night FaceTime call or waking up early to grab breakfast before rehearsals.
Friendship Test: Do they meet you halfway, or do they expect you to always adjust for them?
Are They Showing Up for You?
There is no better feeling than seeing the people closest to you sitting in the audience when you perform. This is especially true when you have put so much time, love, and effort into the piece. So, seeing your bestie sitting out there can be an indescribable feeling. Showing up to support you is a sign of a true friend who really cares about you.
Friendship Test: Do they cheer you on, or do they seem uninterested in your dance life?
Do They Respect Your Time Off?
After a long week of dancing, let’s be real. Sometimes all you want to do is lay in your bed to watch your favorite shows and sleep. A real friend is aware and understanding. Instead of trying to make you go out with them will come and relax with you, so you won’t feel as though you are missing out on anything, and you still get to chill and get the rest you need.
Friendship Test: Do they pressure you to hang out when you need to rest, or do they respect your need to relax?
Final Result: Real Bestie or Not?
If your bestie passes the test with flying colors, then that means they are a good one! But if they didn’t quite succeed in multiple areas, it might be time to talk things out. The best friendships are built on mutual support and good communication. Your bestie should lift you up, not hold you back. Remember a good friendship should never make you feel guilty for following your dreams. The right people will always make space for you—no matter how packed your schedule is!
