This quiz originally appeared in the Spring 2024 Life Without Limits issue of Showstopper Magazine.
We all face challenges, and there’s nothing wrong with knowing what holds you back! Maybe social situations take a lot of rehearsing or trying new things gives you the ick. No matter what your hang-ups are, nothing can get in the way of your dreams with a little determination! Answer the questions below to find your limit and get some tips for breaking free of it.
You have to give a presentation at school. You spend most of your time…
- Rehearsing your notes in the mirror
- Giving yourself pep talks
- Asking your friends what format their project will be
- Trying to convince yourself to start
You’re in a crowded room. Where do you sit?
- Wherever is most comfortable
- Somewhere out of the way
- With all of my best friends
- I’m running late! The last available set
It’s time for your BFF’s birthday party. What’s the first thing that comes to mind?
- What will we do at the party?
- Is my gift going to be a hit?
- Who else is on the guest list?
- I’m just ready to get there!
You meet someone new. The first thing you do…
- Figure out everything we have in common
- Let them take the lead on the introductions
- Try to keep things simple and quick
- Go ahead and plan a time to hangout
Choose a fear.
- Going new places
- Public speaking
- Talking on the phone
- Forgetting important things
Pick a “limitless” hobby.
- Traveling the world
- Skydiving
- Being a pen pal
- Photography
Mostly A’s: New Experiences
Trying new things can be really scary, but stepping outside of your comfort zone is a must for achieving your dreams and even just finding things you love! If new is what holds you back from enjoying people, experiences, and activities, try finding the familiar in everything you do. Then you can enjoy all of the shiny new things, knowing it’s all been done before.
Mostly B’s: Confidence
Hey, you! Has anyone told you that you’re awesome lately? You really are! If finding confidence is a day-to-day struggle, you have to start small. Leave yourself little reminders of what you’re capable of. Give yourself a pep talk or two when you need it, and remember that sometimes, the most confident thing you can do is take the first step toward a goal! The rest is all about the follow-through!
Mostly C’s: Networking
The people you surround yourself with are so important! Going it alone is fine, but knowing who to call (or text or FaceTime or send oddly specific memes) when you need support, advice, or ideas is important. You can’t find your circle if you don’t put yourself out there to build it! Say hello! Find the places where you and the people around you overlap. You’ll thank yourself later.
Mostly D’s: Time
We get it. Time is not always on your side. Maybe you struggle with procrastination or you try to take on too much. No matter what your relationship with time, you can find the best way to get things done. Notebooks and planners are classic, but if you can’t jot away your time problems, try blocking out your to-dos with alarms or find a friend to body-double tasks with to stay on track.
