High school can be scary! Starting high school means new people, classes, and experiences. But there is so much to enjoy, too. One of the best parts of transitioning from middle to high school is the opportunity to make new friends. It can be difficult to know how to navigate these new (and old) friendships. Let’s do it together!
Be Your Self
There is no time like the present! So, stop waiting until you graduate or are older, or whatever your reason may be, lean into the person you want to be now! How would they act? How would they dress? How would they live their life? Apply those ideas to your daily life. It is normal to go through changes, so embrace what feels right. High school is a time for discovering yourself and learning new things.
Be Open to New People and Experiences
While it is so much more comfortable to stick with the people you already know, new friendships won’t form if you stay inside your comfort zone. The same is true of new experiences. Try going to a new school event such as a football game or dance, or try joining a school club. Share these explorations with your new and old friends.
Find Common Interests
Common interests are a great way to connect with people. Share your thoughts on your favorite sport, TV show character, or song. These are easy conversation starters that can help you learn about new people. Start with a simple question, and see what happens! Even if your interests don’t mesh, it’s always nice to talk with someone who has different ideas and hobbies. You never know what you might learn from them.
Handle Conflicts
Friendships aren’t always perfect. Whether you’ve known each other for years or only a week, conflicts come up, and you have to deal with them! When disagreements happen, try to avoid arguments and talk through the problem. Ask how you can make the situation better, and encourage your friend to hear you out. Not every conflict is about you, so keep an open mind. The best thing you can do when you have a disagreement is remember not to lead with anger.